Why You Might Be Stuck on the Sidelines—And How Serving Can Change That

Maybe you’ve sat in church thinking, “Serving isn’t for me… I’m not sure where I fit or if I have anything to offer.” You’re not alone. And honestly? That’s okay. At RiverGlen, we believe serving isn’t about being the perfect person—it’s about being present. Here’s what often keeps people from serving, and how little steps forward can turn into something beautiful.

1. Time Feels Tight—or Empty

Life is full. Between work, family, school, and all the noise in between, carving out space to serve can feel unrealistic. Behaviorally, it’s not that people don’t have time—it’s that other things have simply gotten the priority slot (Ministry Architects). But what if serving became less about adding another thing on your plate, and more about rediscovering purpose? Even 20 minutes can matter—whether it’s helping in the lobby or praying with someone who just needs to talk.

2. I Don’t Feel Good Enough—or Gifted Enough

You might look around and say, “I’m not qualified for that,” or “I don’t have any special gifts.” But Scripture flips that idea: “Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others…” (1 Peter 4:10).

A friend in church isn't a leader or teacher—but they had a listening ear and a warm smile. That was ministry enough. Your “ordinary” can be exactly what someone else needs.

3. I’m Overwhelmed—Burned Out

Burnout is real, friends. Many step back from serving, not because they don’t care, but because they’ve already given and their well runs low (Clever Dude Personal Finance & Money). At RiverGlen, it’s okay to say, “I need rest.” Serving isn’t a race—it’s a gift. And often, the most powerful serving happens from a place of refreshed, surrendered hearts.

4. I Don’t See the Difference My Effort Makes

Ever felt like you’re just moving chairs or passing coffee without it meaning anything? When the purpose isn’t clear, hearts drift (Clever Dude Personal Finance & Money). But what if you knew your smile might be the reason someone came back? Or that your time in RG Kids is planting seeds in future faith? At RiverGlen, we love sharing those little echoes of impact—they remind all of us why we show up.

5. Serving Looks Hard—or Unreachable

Maybe the opportunities feel hidden or too demanding. But serving shouldn’t feel like a mountain climb—it should feel like a hand extended (Charisma Magazine Online). We’re building a culture where volunteering is simple, clear, and personal. Whether it’s a one-time help or a weekly rhythm—there’s space for you.

6. I’m Uncertain About My Beliefs

It’s okay to be curious. Some people sit quietly in worship because they’re still exploring what faith means to them (The Rocket Company, communicatejesus.com). Serving doesn’t require having everything figured out. It just gives you a chance to see faith lived out through kindness, belonging, and real community.

Why Serving Might Just Be the Next Step for You

Active participation in community doesn’t just bless others—it boosts your well-being, too. People who serve or regularly engage in faith communities often report improved mental health, a stronger sense of belonging, and renewed hope (wsj.com). Plus, serving is one of the most practical ways to connect—to contribute—and to celebrate life together (our core 3 C’s).

Maybe This is Your Next Move

If you’ve ever wondered whether serving is for people a lot more ready than you—take heart. At RiverGlen, we believe everyone has a place, and everyone belongs. It doesn’t have to be a big thing. It just has to be something—a smile, a song, a coffee, a listening ear. Start small. And let your heart—and the people around you—do the rest.